We had a deal set, and was on the way to the meet, and he wanted $40 more, I don't think he was even on the way to the meet he agreed to.
Not a good way for a new member to start, maybe I can save a vetted member the hem haw.

PM sent to Jaydubya87 encouraging him to respond.

Others not involved in this transaction are NOT to respond.

Not sure who this is going to.

Opinions are entitled. I am kind of surprised that he left negative feedback, given the day before he said he wouldnt be 'butthurt" if I didn't want to do the trade. His words.

After I turned down the first trade offer, I was contacted with another. It was a fair deal, and I said ok. I had left to meet up when I had a change of heart. You can see in the message I tried to contact him promptly to save any trouble. I was apolagetic but I do have that right, to choose not to make a deal. Would it have been better to waste the time and meet up and then say "nevermind" ?

I think that may have been worse. So either way he would have complained and left negative feedback.

So I apologize to the other member for the "hem haw" but it was not the intention, and I don't appreciate the tone in which it is implied I did it on purpose.

This could make any future dealings I may have on this forum more difficult, all because the other member is unhappy I decided not to trade with him?

Both sides have responded. Thread locked.